I donโt think bad habits are the enemy.
Most of mine once kept me safe.
But what protects us for a while can eventually slow us down.
Looking back at 2025, I see patterns that helped me explore and stay grounded. I also see how some of them now hold me back from where I want to go next.
This is what Iโm leaving behind.
I followed curiosity into too many side paths.
Nothing failed, but too much stayed open.
Focus, not exploration, is what I need now.
I shared more than I shaped.
I documented instead of distilling.
Not everything needs to be said to be true.
I stayed a beginner longer than necessary.
Humility slowly turned into hesitation.
Owning experience is not arrogance.
I waited for clarity before choosing.
I forgot that clarity often follows commitment.
I protected freedom so much that I avoided structure.
Without containers, energy leaks.
Structure can hold freedom, not limit it.
I kept my ambitions quiet.
Some of that was wisdom.
Some of it was self protection.
My habits in 2025 did not sabotage me.
They supported me while I was exploring.
But I am no longer in that phase.
I am not trying to become someone new.
I am removing what keeps me from fully stepping into who I already am.
If this resonates, you are not behind.
You might simply be ready to let go.







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